Anger and hatred are emotions we must do our best to avoid. You do experience those emotions initially, but it is critical to not allow them to control your behavior.
Compassion, mercy, love, patience, kindness, charity, goodness, self-control, and others are the good emotions we can use to combat anger and hatred. When someone does something terrible to you, you will experience anger at first. However, initially, it is important to control your actions and give yourself time to think about what you should do versus reacting to the situation.